Phopia's, beliefs and more, The NLP component 

the art of high effective people use of NLP

Based on my 25 years of experience in working with people as a trainer, coach, and therapist I designed this Unique NLP Therapy Practitioner training. 

NLP techniques provide clients with the tools to overcome certain life obstacles. NLP is, in short, a way of helping people help themselves to reach a state of excellence, happiness, and peace of mind.

In this training we go one step further, I integrated the techniques, tools, and mindset of NLP that works when you are a coach, therapist, manager and work with people.



"Neuro-Linguistic Programming is just a method. What counts is the change you create in your life!"


In this training you will be confronted with the way you think and how that leads to certain choices and behaviours. I this training we provide you the opportunity besides learning the techniques also to experience them and we work together, with you, to gently adjust and change those choices, thoughts and behaviours. Of course if you want to. The outcome can be felt in relationships, at home, in the family environment, in business, with friends, at work...All throughout your life. Although we do use NLP, it is more importantly about you, and your important life-changing growth.


What is NLP about?

Neuro-Linguistic Programming or NLP is an incredibly powerful discipline that allows people to unblock the structures of human communication and human excellence. By understanding NLP, people can think, communicate and manage themselves and others more effectively, more successfully and overcome certain life obstacles or help others to overcome those.


NLP explores the relationships between how we think (neuro), how we communicate (linguistic) and our patterns of behaviour and emotion (programmes). NLP is, in short, a way of helping people help themselves to reach a state of excellence, happiness and peace of mind.


NLP is based on the study of excellence - on the mindsets, interpersonal skills, and consistent behaviour of exceptional people. 

In effect, NLP is a powerful change management tool that transforms the way people think and act to have the greatest impact both professionally and personally.

That’s why NLP is one of the most powerful skills used by successful business coaches, sport coaches, relationship coaches, life coaches and other in the field of personal development, business management, psychology, and sales. 

NLP is a learning model devised by two American academics back in the early 70s. The academics were fascinated by the relationship between language, behaviour and 'excellence' (reaching the highest potential).

They believed that by analysing the unconscious linguistic techniques used by people who were experts in their fields of work or study, other people could consciously learn to apply them. Therefore, NLP techniques can be used for analysing and applying excellence. 

So when we say Personal Development we mean the growth process that you can start, stimulate or enhance, to become more aware of your own life. Are you feeling content about the way in which you are heading to lead your ideal life? If not.......? We can help you to analyse where you are at now and assist you in how you perceive your life’s goals and dreams.


For who is this training designed? 

NLP techniques can be used to:


  • Overcome addictions, PTSD, Phobias and other hinders of life

  • Ability to get the desired outcome in dealing with others, escape the objections and the  “yes, but...” reaction

  • Know the difference of how people really listen, understand, and go into action, 

  • The tools to become much better in presenting yourself,

  • Awareness of the power and impact of your words, tonality and non verbal communication

  • Create rapport and mutual understanding with almost everybody

  • Learn how to bring out the best in clients, colleagues, relatives, etc. 

  • Ways of handling “difficult” people and manage the emotional and distracting demands of internal politics

  • Learn to read people’s body language, facial expressions, and eye movements to gather the non-verbal information work with these signals

  • Have succesful negotations

  • Overcome conflicts easily

  • Learn how to think your way around a problem easily and effortlessly

  • Become much more efficient in time management skills, stop procrastinating, set the right priorities and goals

  • Tools to understand and minimise the impact of stress, frustration and judgement

  • Learn how to think your way around a problem easily and effortlessly

  • Tools to understand the motivation of your own behaviour, the reasons of attracting things you do not want to have in your life

  • To replicate your best on a daily basis, anchoring your best state and experience it when you need or want it

  • Go beyond your limiting beliefs. Awareness of your own beliefs & limitations and the tools to “change” them. 

  • Use adaptation and utilization in a work or personal relationship, stepping into the other believes system to create rapport and use their convincers

  • In short: create the life you desire 



training content


The Basis of connection


  • How do people learn, communicate, change and evolve themselves?

  • The different styles of how we think, decide and communicate called meta programs

  • Belief systems, what we think is true and not true, and how to change this

  • Values, how they are shaped and could dictate our lives and how to be in control of them

  • How do we make decision (which strategies do we use?) and how do we decide to go in to action?

  • How do we install memories and how are they connected with our emotions?

  • How can we break through the limitations like believes, values and habits created by ourselves?


Representational Systems (5 senses)


  • Our 5 senses and the nervous system

  • Influence of the 5 senses on our emotions, thoughts and psychical reactions

  • Eyes movement, what do they tell us about the thoughts, feelings, memories and imagination of the other?

  • Increase creativity, flexibility and learning by using the eye patterns.


Setting and achieving goals and building connection/relationships successfully The 11 principles of achieving your goals used by all successful goal setters


  • The difference between goals you achieve and goals you don’t achieve

  • Learn to set goals and how you can achieve them

  • Discover how to ask questions so that your (and somebody else’s) goals become free from confusion or ambiguity

  • Creating Powerful Outcomes – the commitment model

  • The how of procrastination and how can we really finish what we start?



Strategies, how do people what they do? 


  • Ability to get the desired outcome when dealing with others, escape the objections and the  “yes, but...” reaction

  • How to define the strategies using their eye movement?

  • How to achieve concrete and long lasting results with the help of specific motivation strategies

  • What are our decision-making strategies or our buying strategies?

  • Learn how to sell and/or negotiate based on your client’s strategy (rather than yours) for a more fulfilling result 

Anchoring – motivation and internal state control

  • Overcoming an unwanted internal response to some (past or present) external trigger, like sounds, smell, situations, clients, beliefs etc.

  • Overcoming procrastination and wasting time

  • Learn how to create a personal trigger or stimulus when needed


Parts – stop inner conflicts, the “one part says yes one part of me says no dilemma”


  • Extremely efficient and effective internal and external conflict solving


Submodalities – the secret programming software of your mind, the best technique to work on change


  • How to change limiting or negative beliefs

  • Change minor addictions, compulsions, and limitations

  • Get rid of unwanted behaviors using Sub Modalities

  • Swish Pattern – get rid of fear, negative associations, and bad habits

  • Belief Change – change limiting and negative beliefs

Open eye trance, an alternative for EMDR or EFT, maybe the most powerful tool you will ever learn

The well-formed condition, the tool to analyze how we make a decision and what motivates us to move forward and what keeps us stuck. 


What is the ROI?

  • You will learn unique tools and techniques that will create amazing success when you work with clients, coaches, employees or friends and family members​

  • You will learn the techniques to become more influential in your language

  • You will learn techniques to improve your relationship with your employees, colleagues, clients, patients, partner or kids and achieve tangible results

  • You will make a huge step in your personal development

  • You will learn how to make a real connection with almost everyone 

  • You will learn techniques to help people to overcome limiting beliefs 

  • You will learn techniques to help people to overcome fears and anxieties  

  • You will learn techniques to analyse fast and successful what motivates people and what keeps them stuck

  • You will learn a technique that is extremely powerful to overcome, negative thoughts, emotions and beliefs. 

  • and much more ... :-)